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Chels01
Moderator & Dutchess of the Spirits
Posts: 159
(8/20/02 5:54 pm)
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Another visitation?
This is soooo similar to the time my grandpa visited me. I swear it was not a dream. It was too real. My cousin passed away 2 years ago around Easter. Some background here...she and I were very close as children. She had a rough life as she got older, several car accidents causing jaw problems, all she wanted was to settle down and have a family but couldn't seem to get a break there either, several other problems. She and her boyfriend at the time broke up and after nobody heard from her for several days, he went by her apartment. She had taken an overdose of pills and had left a note. All the note said was, "I'm sorry. Please take care of my cat." I have been so angry with her for doing this to all those who loved her very much, and sad, and the whole gamut. Never have felt 'closure' really. Anyway, her birthday was last week. I did not realize this until my mom reminded me of it after this happened to me last week. In this 'vision' so to speak, she and I were in a car. She was driving and we were talking about everything under the sun - my kids, things we did as we were best friends growing up, etc. She said she knew we were all doing well. I asked her how she was. She told me 'You don't need to worry about me, Michell. I'm doing fine. I'm o.k. now.' It was the strangest thing, because now when I think of her, there is no anger. Sadness that she's not in our lives, yes, something, someONE is mising, but I feel so much more at peace with her now. Am I nuts?

People will forget what you said and what you did, but they will always remember how you made them feel.
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ghstbster
Owner of the Castle & Queen of the Haunts
Posts: 554
(8/20/02 6:38 pm)
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Re: Another visitation?
Definately NOT, I can tell you that spirits can contact you and talk to you threw dreams or visions. She is just letting you know that she is ok and not to worry. You thought about her and she came to you because of you thinking that she was in trouble which she is not. I once had by best friend come to me because I thought about him constantly and he showed me his new friends in the afterlife. I was meeting them all, it was strange to say the least but it comfort me to the fullest. Also I know it was for real because we both loved this song by queen (was a long time ago  ) and I told him when he is around to play that song for me to show that he is there with me. Well I do hear the song from time to time and I only hear it when I need comforting. If that makes any sense. So no I dont think your crazy it is an awsome experience to get to talk to past loved ones on the other side. But that is awsome chels thanks for sharing that. It makes me think of my best friend
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Chels01
Moderator & Dutchess of the Spirits
Posts: 162
(8/20/02 7:09 pm)
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Re: Another visitation?
Oh thank you so much Jenn. It was just really weird. Comforting, and it was almost like - as we were first driving around I kept thinking, this can't be Kim. She's not with us anymore. I truly do believe she is doing o.k. just like she said. I feel soooo much better now.

People will forget what you said and what you did, but they will always remember how you made them feel.
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ghstbster
Owner of the Castle & Queen of the Haunts
Posts: 560
(8/21/02 12:59 am)
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Re: Another visitation?
Im glad I think those are the best encounters to have
((((Hugs))))
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loopygirl69
Lead Moderator & Mad Dutchess
Posts: 386
(8/21/02 1:06 am)
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Re: Another visitation?
Okay, that gave me goose bumps Chels, I think it really was her, wanting you to let go of all the anger.
Edited by: loopygirl69 at: 8/20/02 10:08:48 pm
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Tayless
Stairway Moderator & Prince of the Elves
Posts: 91
(8/21/02 7:26 pm)
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Re: Another visitation?
Sorry to hear about you friend,but IM sure she was letting you know she was doing well.
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CountessCattarina
COH Neighbor

Posts: 51
(9/6/03 11:55 am)
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Re: Another visitation?
I think this just shows that when someone kills themselves they are not doomed to hell like told by the church as we was growing up. I believe that they had a lesson to learn and that no one could possibly know what someone is going through
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