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CathyJ 
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Posts: 23
(4/15/03 5:50 am)
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 I quit
Well since everyone seems to have the luxury of posting whatever they want wherever they want... I'll do my posting here. I shut my board down, most of the ppl on UV don't know what's going on OFF UV and I won't give anyone at the Imperim(sp WTFE) the satisfaction of having a better chance of seeing this post over there... Soooooo...
I'm deleting my ezboard account. I've had it with all the ppl (and I'm talking about on other boards I visit as well) and all the shit and unecessary crap that comes along with so many ppl in one place. I'm not going to visit a place where I could set myself up to be the potential butt of a joke between other ppl when I make a post or respond to a post.
All this just because I had a different opinion on this situation and I VOICED it oh heaven forbid. And what gets me is, I wasn't even really sticking up for you ZQ, I'm sorry I was trying to remain neutral (I should've known better) and I know that you can understand that and not get upset. All I said was ppl should talk things out instead of just running to post their concerns somewhere. Sounds hypocritical, yes, I'm doing it now, but this person, and possibly later on PPL doesn't want me posting at their home so why would I try to email them or message them? Waste of time. They(<-- as in not HE OR SHE just THEY) completely misunderstood my reasoning in posting which really made me laugh because it was like... pft, (sarcasm)yeah I love a message board so much I wish ppl would post everything they thought and said there so I could see it... Yeah right how ridiculous.
I knew how this person and some others were about what it came to when ppl had different views of what they had and yet I still set myself up for the, what I think is, ignorance of it all.
I don't care about the why's and how's anymore. I guess this is what I get for caring about ppl I've grown to like and in some ways consider a little family and an escape from the outside stress of the "real world". Guess that's what I get for being nice (Maureen says I'm TOO nice LOL) and just trying to help and offer a different views. No one had to take it... I could've just been ignored and blown off, but no that would be too easy. Made to feel inferior, pft, I belived in this world that most ppl are no better than each other, so you can imagine how irritated I feel right now. So sorry I have a family instead of a college degree and I use terms everyone can understand instead of typing out a bunch of crap that most ppl might skip over. (I'm thinking in past terms now, heh)
I had made a new name for the IP websites message board but maybe I'll just delete all that too. I haven't decided yet.
Yeah, this is how much one person effected me and made me 'not care' anymore. At least I know I won't be around to be pointed out and snickered at... not assuming that that would happen for sure, but I'd rather not take the chance. Basically because... I've seen others do it and it's just shitty.
Ezboard isn't worth all this. I never expected anyone to always agree... but to be told you're not welcome because I don't like what you think/your opinion is shitty. And you'll note, I'm not naming names for a reason and it has nothing to do with 'copy post and save post' lol.
Anyhow. life's too damn short and I just don't care and want to wonder about the things I've mentioned. I've been less judgemental of ppl ever since 9/11 and changed a lot of my perspective... maybe not right when things went wrong but not long after either. Maybe it was something else too, now that I think about it. Meh, it was both I guess. And now this war. Jesus will it ever end? Well talk about going WAY off topic LOL.
HUGS TO ALL
Cathy
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TheDreamgirl
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Posts: 10
(4/15/03 2:54 pm)
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Re: I quit
I'm sorry to see that you're leaving.
You shouldn't let what others think of you get you down. Screw them. Don't let others try and make you feel inferior....they can't.
I wish I had comforting words to give you right now...all I can say is, don't leave because of somebody else. (((hug)))
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cali bozz 
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(4/15/03 8:38 pm)
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Re: I quit
Quote:
Made to feel inferior
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No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
by Eleanor Roosevelt
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Or you can always take the quote from my Uncle Bud:
It's a little song and it goes something like this:
Fuck em' all....fuck em' all...fuck em' all
the big the short and the tall....
Fuck em' all...fuck em' all...fuck em' all
Don't let others ruin what you like to do....Don't let them take that away from you too. 
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TheDreamgirl
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(4/15/03 11:15 pm)
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Re: I quit
 @ Cali.....I like your uncle bud's song....very catchy. Going to have to remember that.
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VinsPartnerInCrime 
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Posts: 101
(4/16/03 11:28 pm)
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I wish you wouldn't go. I do know what you're going through though. It hapenned to me at the UVDFC all the time, and lots of people there didn't like me because I voiced my opinion. I was pointed at, chastized, and ridiculed also. I know people who used to talk alot of trash about me for no apparent reason. And I disagree with the comment that noone can make you feel inferior without your consent. You can only ignore so much. And yes, its impossible to ignore it all. True that what dosen't kill you makes you stronger, but its unneccesary bullshit that always enforces the "one bad apple spoils the bushel" thought.
Having said that, I just want you to know that I will miss you. You were one of the people who was kind to me in the past, and I wish you the best in whatever you decide to do. I think there are some people who have no life outside of the boards. I for one am not one of those people, and I'm sad to say that's why I don't come to the other boards like I used to.
Anways.. I'm done with the wordage.
Peace and Love to you always, Cathy .
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ZypherQueen 
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(4/17/03 5:24 pm)
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Cathy I'm sad that you've decided to call it quits but I understand your reason for doing so. I know you were trying to be neutral in the midst of all the bullshit that was going on so I won't be offended or upset over something as petty as that. Thanks for voicing your opinion anyways, just goes to show what I've been saying all along was true about certain indiviuals.
I can't change your mind ans ask you to stay but I will keep in touch with you from time to time via IM. Take care sweety! 
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