Hey George,
Thank you for your very kind letter.
Our website began as a 4 page personal site to introduce ourselves to other gay men who might have the same interests as we do, just regular guyz who like to go camping, like cars or motorcycles, sports (in what ever mode)..... Guyz who are just regular guyz and who just happen to be gay. We don't identify with the flamboyant "flamers" or those who want to wear dresses. So how do you go about meeting people more like yerselves.
One national magazine said the BeefyBoyz website "builds a community".... and that is what we wanted to do.
Thanks for letting us know we have been successful. We have received numerous emails from men who identify themselves as straight..... some simply say they enjoy the website.... some say that while they love their wives and family they also find themselves attracted to some of the men they see on our website and they are happy to know there are lots of "regular guyz" who are gay but not "faggy"..... One close personal friend who competes in National level Masters bodybuilding recently told his wife of 20+ years there was this other part of him which he didn't want to lie about anymore..... They are still together, she is supportive and they love each other very much. He has his time with his friends, men with whom he enjoys spending time and has much in common with.
You are not alone there Phil.
Let us know if we can be of help in any way. In the meantime, keep hittin' the gym, it's all about feeling good about yourself.
All the best.

Jim & Bob AKA Da BeefyBoyz